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Uenoyama Ritsuka ([personal profile] gaypanicatthedisco) wrote2019-08-18 05:23 pm
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[ Shipping + Kinks ]


One day I'll clean this section up and make it less rambley, but for now...

SHIPPING INFORMATION 

Uenoyama is very much a "late bloomer". Up until this point in his life, he has had zero interest in dating anyone at all. In fact, he's always had very little patience for romantic chatter and discussion... But, if he meets the right person now, he is finally at the point in his life where romance can and WILL become part of his world. More often than not, unless we're assuming some CR, any relationship with Uenoyama is bound to be a slow burn. Mainly because he's a slow guy, when it comes to recognizing and accepting his own feelings for what they are. He also just sucks at communication so he has no idea how to even start being a proper boyfriend to someone. 

As far as males are concerned, there are several hints that Uenoyama has been thinking not-so-straight thoughts for quite some time now, completely unbeknownst to himself. While he never has much to say about the looks of any girl in particular, Uenoyama has no problem innocently admitting out loud that he would "go for a guy like Kaji", "if he were a girl"... And then of course he ends up falling for a boy who is the complete opposite of Kaji in every way, but. Uenoyama will almost certainly have tons of GAY PANIC when he is confronted with his attraction towards the opposite sex. There's going to be lots of worry and confusion and denial and YELLING because he is just very uncertain of his sexuality. However, when he falls for a guy, he's going to fall hard. Uenoyama is a deeply caring, extremely sensitive boy- to the extent that even the tiniest of expressions from the guy he likes will greatly influence his mood and turn him into an anxious, twitchy, love-struck mess. He is a complete disaster.

For females, in an odd way, things might be even tougher. There wont be nearly as much distress or panic involved- but only because he usually doesn't have any strong feelings for girls one way or the other in that sense. Despite that, Uenoyama actually has a lot of secret female admirers around his school- though he remains completely oblivious to his own popularity. The most Uenoyama ever has to say about females in the manga is apparently just telling Kaji-san that he "doesn't dream about girls much". The way that he was raised supposedly contributed to Uenoyama having "girl immunity", where he simply isn't as interested in them as the average straight boy his age is. In fact, if anything outright romantic or sexual is to happen between himself and a girl, it's going to need some serious initiation from the girl's end if you ever want hope of the relationship progressing anywhere. Otherwise there is a high probability that he will keep his female friend completely friend-zoned, or at most treat her like she is a second sister to him. 

SEXUAL INFORMATION

UUUMMMMMMMMM???????????????????

Ssssooooo......

ICly, just think pure fluffy thoughts, and you can pretty much figure out where is interests lie. Of course he has thought about sex before; he's still a hormonal teenager at the end of the day. But things like kinks are literally the furthest thing from his pure mind right now because he is just a pure cinnamon roll of a boy. HOWEVER, depending on the mood of the thread and the intensity of his own feelings at the time, it is certainly possible for Uenoyama to be less flaily and far more aggressive. Just kinda depends on his dynamic with his partner- as well as which 'buttons' of his get pressed in the moment. Uenoyama is someone who gets very quickly and strongly swayed by his emotions, so there are times where his emotions override his usual worrywart brain and he becomes quite impulsive. If he is thinking clearly, however, he will do a better job of fighting to keep those impulses in check.

OOCLY- Mun has PLENTY of interest in kinks, and you can find a list of my particular kink-preferences here.

Generally speaking, though- I would always prefer to establish at least some CR before getting into anything outright smutty. It's not impossible for me to one day be in the mood to write some smut without previous CR, but the more slowburn UST I can get before it comes to that, the better. Lets drag some tension-filled romantic shit out for a torturous amount of time, shall we? And while we're at it, why not throw in a little angst, heartbreak, drama, jealousy, and various other romantic roadblocks to make it even more interesting!